girl talk

◊when it comes to relationships, many of us had trouble understanding the opposite sex and what really makes a relationship work. i am no certified guru to tell you all that. let's leave that to the experts, maybe Dr. Phil? or Oprah? who the fuck ever..better yet, the womens magazines.. but for now, i just wanna share  a thing or two that i've learned from past relationships which brought me to list a couple of rules in finding my own happy ending..(i have to admit this is not entirely true.) i've had my moments..but in reality, it's not always sunshine and vanilla all through the end, the roads aren't as smooth as the freeway..there's always boulders along the way..but then again..i guess you already know that. so..let's just proceed to these rules:

5 relationship rules: 

Rule#1: Listen to your friends

While some of us may have found our prince, once or twice we have to admit we've had bad relationships in the past and like many of us, we hardly listen to our friends telling us to dump his sorry ass. Noooo! i also had a pretty evil person in my life..All my friends were going, RUN! and i was like, "but i love him,.yada, yada.." Of course, my friends turned out to be right.. and like other women who've been caught in the clutches of an evil ex..we could only wished we learned our lesson.. so, i guess it's safe to say that if your man doesn't get along with your friends..there's no time to waste; run away from him. lol.. 

Rule#2: Give everyone a chance

Being picky doesn't necessarily leads you to finding your perfect mate and some are picky because they don't wanna settle for anything less. Guess what ladies..it's not really about that. I really don't agree with all the boundaries we put on everything. Women are forever discounting men for all sorts of silly reasons– too old, too young, wrong haircut? I say, give a guy a chance and he may surprise you. I have my moments where i've been pleasantly surprised by my choices and i've always had plenty of choice.i really don't believe the whole 'there are no decent men out there' thing.. Get real! there are loads of gorgeous guy in every street corner..So quit moaning about the man drought and give the next guy who asks you out a chance..

Rule#3: Never underestimate your own power:

You know what they say; the best thing about being a woman is the power we have over men.. learn to use it..be comfortable within yourself..do not be afraid to use feminine traits to your own advantage. Ditch whatever insecurities you have..when your confident about yourself, you become desirable to every man on the planet.

Rule#4: Have a sense of humor:

Sense of humor is a big part of personality and it helps a relationship work. Being a clown is more entertaining than sitting there looking beautiful..We all know men are visual maniacs..but having big boobies and tight ass..or pretty face..isn't the only thing that attracts these species.. men loves women who can make them laugh.. Remember: laughter is the greatest reward of being alive and little can compare to the feeling of a deep, complete, heartfelt laughing spell.. life is good when laughter is frequent. And so does in relationship..

Rule#5: A great sex life is important:

I don't know how else i can say this without some of you questioning my values or moral foundation..you hypocrites..hehehe.pish! Let's not make a big deal on moral issues here. Premarital or within the sanctity of marriage..a great sex life is important in every relationship.. Sexual chemistry is as important as making your partner laugh.. Physical closeness helps both partners feel more secure and comfortable about each other.. We like sex because it makes us feel desirable by our partners. In the old days, we say, it is an expression of love.. this is still true, sex is even more better when you do it with the one you love.. So how do we get to this important part in the relationship as steamingly great as our first orgasms? i say, practice makes it perfect.lol. hehehe..do it as often as you can..hahaha.. and be adventurous..others, like it soft, slow and gentle, well..you can always add a little something extra to spice it up.. like using a scarf maybe? and getting you all tied up. And when youre in that space of passionate screwing..then hallelujah! go on with your bad self.. and sex actually helps resolve certain intimacy issues within a relationship..

..that's all folks! 

just some simple tips that i hope you will find helpful.. 

thanks for your time… i hope you enjoy it here..

Carry on..♥